![]() ![]() She is a very good woman and actually has a great heart. What most of you don't know is the dynamics of everything that goes into our relationship that I cannot possibly explain on here. I know, I know, most people will say that im freaking stupid for not leaving her but I love her and I want to make it work. And of coarse I got it out of her that about a year ago she had had another slip up with this same guy and gave him oral sex in his truck, and he returned the favor and did the same for her!!! That was about it! I was so mad that I almost passed out and I told her I was leaving and she begged and begged and I ended up not leaving her. So, I asked her if she had told me absolutely everything. So after that whole thing, a couple weeks went by and I had been dealing with this crap, not very well, and so I decided to confront her again because I still was not convinced that she was not being truthful to me about everything. Again, I was screwed up and I was so furious that she did not tell me the first time, that she lied and only said she kissed him. Then she admitted to me that they had sex the first time that she told me but withheld that part of it from me because she was so devastated that she did not want to hurt me. she freaked out and we had another explosion, fight. When I saw this I woke her A#% up in the middle of the night to confront her about it. So many texts and Emails to this guy over the course of 3 years or so a lot of naked pictures back and forth and one particular email eluding to the fact that they actually had sex and he was reminiscing about it to her. I found out a lot of crap that she had been hiding. Now I had been suspicious this whole time because of what happened before and so I decided to look at her phone one night when she was sleeping (luckily I know all her passwords so it was easy). So.Fast forward about 6 months after that. ![]() I decided to forgive her again because I loved her dearly and didn't know what else to do at the time. After a big fight, long drawn out battle I eventually got it out of her that she also performed oral sex on him that night!!!!!! Mind you, that this was two freaking years later that she finally told me this!!!! I was horribly devastated and she was panicking again and swearing to me that she never told me because she didn't want to "hurt" me. I got through it, forgiving her and moving on with my life, because it was just a kiss right? Fast forward two years later.through the course of seeing a couple risqué text messages on her phone to the guy she cheated on me with, I decided to confront her and ask her if that's all they did was just "kiss" that night. I accepted it, and I eventually delt with it over time, it was tough but And that it would never, ever happen again! she was so sorry, crying and everything. She assured me that's all they did, nothing else physical at all. I was stunned, and didn't know what to do or think. But all I got out of her was that she had only kissed and maid out with the guy. Long story short, I got it out of her that she had cheated on me with one of the member golfers there at her club, (who was also married). Anyway, one night she comes home, and I am already off work, and she is in a panic attack and she has never had one before. (for the record she was a beverage cart lady at a golf course). This excited her and she even told me about how everybody hits on her, well most of the member golfers there. My wife had a new job which she got a ton of new attention from the men there that she had never got before. I work long hours and am frequently away from home for days on end for work. I have been married to my wife for 5-1/2 years now but we have been together for 10years total. I will try to condense this as much as I can because it is a long story. Hi there, I am new here and I just wanted to share my story so that maybe I could get some insight on what to do, and how to feel at this time.
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